Dude, who even knows.
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So something I have realized is Roissy/PUA-style “game” does not work as a normative guide to how you, a man who does not get pussy, can get pussy, but it is a 100% accurate descriptive account of how the guys who do get pussy get pussy, and anxiety is the mediating factor
they get pussy because they recognize that there’s plenty of pussy that just wants a cock that leaves in the morning, and the PUA stuff is signaling “hey, I am a cock that will leave in the morning”
i guess you’re right that “anxiety” is a part of the thing but the anxiety is him looking ahead to the next morning, where he wants to make her breakfast and she is wondering whether she should call the cops or her boyfriend
I really think you’re misreading anxiety as mere nervous uncertainty here, like before the 90s depression got misread as mere sadness.