So when I first met polyamorous people at the New Jersey Renaissance Kingdom in like 1998 they weren’t all lumpy misshapes, there was also a mid-30s couple, the type who had probably done coke at parties without ever being regular users, who worked some sorta pirate sideshow?

Anyway I got the sense they were the kind of people who would’ve been swingers in 1988 and into hotwifing in 2008 and free use in 2018, not even in it to get laid themselves so much as that they both think that people who pull a lot of strange are hot and they want to date someone like that