me some time ago, after sobbing about my fight with another partner: I wouldn’t be having this problem if I were a premodern peasant girl who had gotten monogamously married to an adult man when she was 14

81k: you would be having worse problems

me: like WHAT. Oh… yeast infection but no antifungals

81k: I mean, classically marital rape

81k: You would also have to get up early in the morning to sew textiles.

me, still kind of crying: For my rapist? (starting to get angry) Leggings for my rapist?