Dude, who even knows.

13th December 2022

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I feel like gay fetishes these days have prerequisites I didn’t take.

Like, Tom of Finland stuff, I got that when I was straight – you like men, so you like big muscles and cocks.

And even the Mad Max leather harnesses I could vibe when I turned bi, I can see how that plays to and with notions of masculinity.

But pup play? Like, maybe if I had been immersed in the Mad Max stuff when it first showed up I could grok the transition and port aspects of my kink over, but coming in fresh it’s like… what?

  1. drdemonprince said: @kontextmaschine it’s overwhelmingly a gay guy thing yes, but I do see plenty of trans girls and cafab trans people pups at the events and furry spaces actually! think it skews men bc dogs are intuitively “boys” in a lot of cis ppls minds and its a masculine kind of submission theoretically. like active, helpful, rugged, not fey etc
  2. kontextmaschine said: Well, I’m a cat person, maybe I just lack a rich sense of what it’s like to relate to a submissive dog
  3. bugger-bhagavan reblogged this from vriskakinnieaynrand and added:
    i don't have any answers but i don't understand people's incomprehension and bafflement at it. made sense the first time...
  4. kontextmaschine said: @drdemonprince I guess part of it is if it’s not about masculinity per se, it’s just weird it’s a specifically gay thing. Like, you don’t see even trans doggirls with the hoods.
  5. vriskakinnieaynrand reblogged this from kontextmaschine and added:
    the human capacity for language is a great source of problems. so what if you didn't
  6. drdemonprince said: its the dehumanization and degradation thing, but w a softer cuddlier side. tho the hoods are uggo to me personally
  7. space-wizards said: maybe it’s cross pollination from furry stuff?
  8. kontextmaschine posted this
    I feel like gay fetishes these days have prerequisites I didn't take....Like, Tom of...