I feel like gay fetishes these days have prerequisites I didn’t take.

Like, Tom of Finland stuff, I got that when I was straight – you like men, so you like big muscles and cocks.

And even the Mad Max leather harnesses I could vibe when I turned bi, I can see how that plays to and with notions of masculinity.

But pup play? Like, maybe if I had been immersed in the Mad Max stuff when it first showed up I could grok the transition and port aspects of my kink over, but coming in fresh it’s like… what?