So something I have realized is Roissy/PUA-style "game" does not work as a normative guide to how you, a man who does not get pussy, can get pussy, but it is a 100% accurate descriptive account of how the guys who do get pussy get pussy, and anxiety is the mediating factor
Also “anxiety” is not something caused by the situations you’re in such that conscious changes in will yield change but rather a permanent variable, per-person and biochemical, like “depression”