IT HAPPENED TO ME: I Waited Until My Wedding Night to Lose My Virginity and I Wish I Hadn’t [x]
This is a long read but it’s interesting. Really sad though.
“I am now thoroughly convinced that the entire concept of virginity is used to control female sexuality.”
in early 1900s America, Protestant colleges started giving mandatory courses in how to sex your spouse to deal with this exact issue
Like, this is an underused erotic premise, honestly. College used to for-real have classes on how to fuck.
Like, your spouse, though, it was common for students to marry while attending college, and until student unrest in the 1950s colleges often claimed “in loco parentis” (“in the place of parents”) authority to regulate their lives and conduct to suppress unmarried sexuality.