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21st March 2021

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So this is right at the borderline of things I suddenly realized were bi upon changing

(Headliners are:

  • Porn theaters and private booths: jerk off to straight porn while gay guys watch offering bjs? Stick your dick through a gloryhole not knowing who’s on the other side? Who is this for, I asked. Now I realize it’s like the bi equivalent of bathhouses.
  • A surprising amount of ‘80s-style antigay stuff. Like, preachers who proclaim heterosexual marriage as the foundation of society but were picking up dudes away from their wives? Guys speaking with conviction about how social pressure was useful and necessary to fight temptation and keep men pairing with women and not men?

)

but I’m just now grokking that cuckolding or “sharing” girls are both ways for guys to give and take pleasure from other guys, using a girl as an interface medium.

There’s more than that in there – there’s the prickly kick of violating social norms, the eroticization of your fears and inadequacy, the turnon of having your ideal type – a girl who gets around – as a partner, etc. But among things there is that.

  1. kontextmaschine reblogged this from kontextmaschine and added:
    By contrast college fraternities always seemed a little bi but I'm newly appreciating the nuance of a bunch of guys...
  2. gattsuru said: Yup. It’s _really_ obvious in a lot of ‘bi’ porn, to the point where you’ll see Corbin Fisher actors literally toss women across the bed to get to the 'main event’, but the 'not that briar patch’ of a significant other demanding the sub to suck someone’s member isn’t much more subtle.
  3. cockk-dealer said: I thought sharing girls was so that girls could have a sense of plausible deniability that they were exclusively into men while they had sex with other girls
  4. isaacsapphire reblogged this from kontextmaschine and added:
    Yuuuup.