So newest wrinkle of turning bi: I'm noticing that since they became, y'know, eligible, some share of my social assessment of queer men is of them as such. And that this is affecting my sense of them even in spheres that have nothing to do with that. (And that presumably, this has been coloring my assessment of women for a while)
What triggered this was realizing I was giving more credit to Josh Barro for his analysis of Joe Biden’s approach to congressional relations for no identifiable reason
I have no sexual thoughts about Josh Barro! Even when I try! It’s like at the level at which my impression of The Velvet Underground & Nico is shaped by the fact that Nico was a pretty girl