Striking the distinction between the 2000s "cougar" thing, framed as "visibly older women can still be fuckable minxes" vs. modern gentle femdom, step-mom video, sexy ASMR stuff, framed as "comforting mommy as erotic role"
like, the former was an interesting mix of maiden and crone, but the latter is more interesting as something that’s determinedly mother and sexy not just in spite of but because of that